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The Girlfriends' Guide to Surrogacy
Surrogate Terminology…
There are two types of Surrogates, gestational and traditional. The defining factor is
whether or not the Surrogate has a genetic link to the child that she is carrying.
Gestational Surrogacy is the process by which a Surrogate becomes pregnant through In-
Vitro Fertilization. The eggs come from either the Intended Mother, or an egg donor.
Either the Intended Father or a sperm donor provides the sperm. The Surrogate receives
the fertilized egg through an Embryo Transfer. The Gestational Surrogate has no genetic
link to the baby. A Traditional Surrogacy occurs when the Surrogate becomes pregnant,
through Artificial Insemination, using her own eggs. Therefore, a Traditional Surrogate
has a biological and genetic link to the child. The Intended Father or a sperm donor
supplies the sperm.
To be eligible to be represented by The Gift of Surrogacy, you must:
Reside in Idaho or Southeastern Oregon
Be between the ages of 21 and 39 years old
Like being pregnant and desire to help another family
Be a non-smoker, who maintains a healthy lifestyle
Be willing to abstain from alcohol during pregnancy
Be willing to limit caffeine intake during pregnancy
Have a healthy body mass index (height/weight ratio)
Have a history of full-term, healthy pregnancy
Have health insurance
Have successfully carried at least one child, who is currently in your custody
Be financially stable, and in a safe home environment
Not be receiving State Assistance
If married, have a spouse who is supportive of your becoming a Surrogate
Taking the first step…
Step one of becoming a Surrogate is to do some serious soul-searching. Our screening
process is designed to introduce you to, and educate you in, the world of Surrogacy. By
the completion of the screening process, you will know whether or not becoming a
Surrogate is the right choice for you. Becoming a Surrogate is a decision that will change
your life, and ultimately, feed your soul. How many other jobs can promise that?
Your “Perfect” Intended Parents…
Matching Surrogates with their “perfect” Intended Parents is an extremely personal and
emotional process. Intended Parents are typically looking for a Surrogate who is healthy,
stable, and has views similar to their own. However, Intended Parents also want
someone to whom they feel a strong connection. You will most likely meet prospective
Intended Parents at an “Interview Day,” where they will meet individually with between
two and four Surrogate finalists. An interview is a wonderful opportunity for you; it is
your chance to shine. We will be present at the interview, and you will be allotted a
specific amount of time to get to know the Intended Parents. We will contact you and the
other candidates as soon as possible with the results of those interviews. You could be
selected as a result of the first interview you attend, or the fourth or fifth. Keep in mind
that if you were not chosen, those Intended Parents were not the right couple for you.
They chose the Surrogate who was “perfect” for them; you will be the “perfect” choice for
someone else.
When you are chosen, you will receive a copy of the Intended Parents’ questionnaire and
a brief Biography. You will then be given the choice to work with them. From this point,
the contract will be finalized in thirty days, or less. And now, your journey begins...
The Contract…
This story is the same for both sides: Surrogacy is a very personal journey, but it is also a
business. This will never be more prevalent than during the contract phase of your
Surrogacy. Many Surrogates consider the contract to be the most stressful part of their
Surrogacy experience. The contract outlines the rules of the surrogacy for both the
Surrogate and the Intended Parents. It will include a detailed payment schedule,
including a breakdown of all relevant fees, and when you will receive them. The contract
also defines what you will be able to expect from your Intended Parents, and what
expectations your Intended Parents will have of you. At The Gift of Surrogacy, the fees of
our Surrogates are non-negotiable. This eliminates potential hard feelings between you
and your Intended Parents. Your Surrogate Fee will depend on a variety of factors, but
will start at $20,000 for first-time Surrogates, or $30,000 for proven Surrogates. This
eliminates the need to negotiate; your fee will be set, and you will never have to answer
the question, “Are you willing to reduce your fee?” We know that you became a
Surrogate for all of the right reasons. Your Intended Parents can expect what they are
asking for…their child. We believe that you should receive what you ask for, as well. Still,
many difficult issues remain which will require negotiation, and we will act as the liaison
between you and the Intended Parents in order to resolve those issues (with as little
conflict as possible).
The body of Surrogacy case law is emerging and remains unsettled; therefore, it is in
everyone’s best interest to work with a lawyer who has extensive experience with
surrogacy contracts. We will provide just such an attorney to mediate your contract.
Before the contract is submitted, a detailed questionnaire will be filled out by both
parties. This document will then be used to draft the contract. The lawyer will outline
and review the contract, which will then be sent out to both parties. The lawyer will then
make any changes or additions requested by either party. Once the contract is approved,
copies will be sent to you and to your Intended Parents. The majority of correspondence
with the lawyer will be handled for you by the agency.
Payments…
The surrogacy arrangement ensures that being a Surrogate will be of no cost to you. The
Intended Parents are responsible for all expenses, including: medical procedures, doctor
fees, medications, attorney fees, etc. In addition, you will receive a monthly allowance to
pay for some of the smaller expenses that you will incur. Any additional amounts that are
listed “In the Gray Area,” will be paid within seven days of the given procedure.
The Intended Parents will also have a trust account opened for you, into which they will
place all of the funds you will be receiving, prior to the Embryo Transfer. This allows you
and the Intended Parents to concentrate solely on enjoying the pregnancy. It also
provides you security, knowing that you will receive your payments as stated. Generally,
Surrogates receive a payment the first of each month, if this schedule is inconvenient for
you, arrangements can be made. The trust account is established once the contract has
been signed, a sample disbursement schedule is listed in the application portfolio.
The Transfer…
When you meet the other Surrogates, their first question will be “when do you transfer?”
The transfer is such an exciting event because it signifies the beginning of the Surrogate
process. The medical procedure for the Embryo Transfer is similar to the combination of a
Pap test and vaginal ultrasound. In most cases, the procedure is pain free. For a "fresh"
cycle, (a sample protocol would be) that the clinic will adjust your menstrual cycle to fit the
transfer schedule through a series of birth control pills and daily injections of Lupron, a
drug that suppresses ovulation. If you are thinking, “but I hate needles,” do not worry,
once you get past the initial shock (and we will help you through it), it will seem just a
normal part of your daily routine. Everyone who has been through the process felt
intimidated at first, but after just two days, you will be amazed at how simple and
relatively painless the injections are. You will attend a “shot class” at the reproductive
clinic (not nearly as fun as it sounds), where a nurse will talk you through the first
injections, and we will always be available to assist you, as well. For "fresh" as well as
"frozen" cycles, you will also begin Delestrogen (Estradiol Valerate) injections two to
three weeks prior (and Progesterone injections approximately four to six days prior) to
the transfer date. These meds are designed to maintain the integrity of the uterine
lining, and assist in making the transfer successful.
You will be subject to weekly blood tests to monitor your meds, and an ultrasound every
few weeks to evaluate your uterine lining. The eggs will be retrieved from the Intended
Mother or egg donor and fertilized, and three days (cleaved embryo) or five days
(blastocyst) later, the Doctor will transfer the embryos into your uterus. You will be on
strict bed rest following the Transfer for approximately 72 hours. You will then continue
your Delestrogen and Progesterone injections, and likely begin Progesterone vaginal
suppositories at that time. Your continued plan of care will depend on your individual
response to the meds, and we will be available to assist and support you in anyway
possible.
On the eighth and tenth days after the embryo transfer, you will have blood draws at the
clinic to confirm your hCG levels. On the afternoon of the tenth day, the clinic will call you
with the results of those tests. We hope that you will hear the words:
Congratulations! You’re Pregnant…
You and your Intended Parents will determine the amount of contact you will have during
the pregnancy. If both parties are open to a lot of contact, you can arrange for frequent
visits and/or phone calls. If you both prefer a more reserved approach, your Intended
Parents may just attend a few doctor appointments, and correspond by e-mail. At The
Gift of Surrogacy, we encourage healthy and respectful relationships between the
Surrogate and Intended Parents. We are also committed to making the surrogacy
experience as stress-free as possible, and the best way to ensure that--is good
communication. If there are ever questions, problems, or changes to be made, we will be
there to help to resolve those issues.
Counseling Sessions
One of the most important services that we are able to provide to our Surrogates is our
series of counseling sessions. Your good mental health is essential to a positive
surrogacy experience. Surrogacy is a deeply personal and emotional investment. To
borrow the Army's old ad-campaign slogan, "It is the hardest job you'll ever love." To
that end, we have created a counseling package which consists of a series of four
appointments with a Licensed Psychologist with knowledge specific to Surrogates,
Intended Parents, Egg Donors, and others involved in Third-Party Reproductive Medicine.
The first appointment is designed to go along with the pre-screening, to assess where
you are at both mentally and emotionally, and to prepare you for the process. The
second appointment is set to deal with either the confirmed pregnancy--or a failed
transfer. It is nearly impossible to gauge, before-hand, how you will feel after a failed
transfer. We want for you to understand that, unfortunately, this is a common part of the
surrogacy experience--and that the next step is to make sure that everyone is looking
forward--to the next transfer. The third appointment is meant to prepare you for the
birth--your role, what to expect, and how to honor both yourself and the Intended
Parents on this wonderful day. The final appointment is intended as an exit-interview
(taking place a few weeks after the birth) to bring the experience full-circle and to
address any postpartum issues should they occur.
Nutrition Counseling Classes
We are so excited to offer you a series of three nutrition counseling sessions (one each
trimester). The series will consist of a five to seven course meal prepared in front of you
and the other Surrogates by a Licensed Nutrition Counselor. The focus will be on
addressing the specific nutritional needs associated with each phase of pregnancy, and
providing easy-to-prepare meal ideas for you and your busy family.
The Gift of Surrogacy ....
You would probably like to know how much contact you will have with the agency. The
answer is, as much or as little as you would like. Some of our Surrogates contact us on a
daily basis, others monthly. A lot of that depends on where you are in the process. We
contact each of our Surrogates on (at minimum) a weekly basis, and more often in the
beginning, when the process is most intensive. If this is too much for you, we will work
together to create a schedule that everyone can agree on. Some Intended Parents
contact their surrogates on a daily or weekly basis--others, less frequently. The
relationship will evolve into one that works for both of you.
From the time you are accepted into the program, until the birth of the baby; you will
become very familiar the entire support staff of our agency. We will introduce you to the
world of Surrogacy, and answer any questions you might have along the way. We will be
with you every step of the way, offering insight, encouragement, guidance, support, and
advice.
An offer you can’t refuse…
Once you become involved with our agency, you will find yourself emotionally invested in
the world of surrogacy. You will constantly think of friends or family members who you
know would make excellent Surrogates. Educated and confident in your decision, you will
be a walking advertisement for The Gift of Surrogacy, and cannot help but introduce
others to this part of your life. Should one of those potential candidates become
interested themselves, we would love to meet her and/or have her attend a support
group meeting. If your referral is matched, you will receive a $250 "finder's fee" at the
heart-beat ultrasound. It’s just our little way of saying, “Thanks!”
In Closing…
We've thought and thought about to conclude this section; we wanted to be absolutely
sure that we would say the right thing. When we were Surrogates, we were certain that
there had to be a better agency out there. That day it existed only in our minds, today it
exists as The Gift of Surrogacy. This agency is the culmination of our wishes and desires
for those just beginning the process of becoming a Surrogate. We have done our best to
maintain the nearly impossible balance of the smart business sense that you would
expect from a goal-oriented agency, and the heart-felt generosity of spirit that such a
personal journey requires. Being a Surrogate is not just something that you do, but
rather a reflection of the person who you are. It takes a special woman to be willing to
carry a child for someone else. It is a life-affirming decision, and something we have felt
called to do and blessed by.
The Gift of Surrogacy is deeply committed to our Surrogates. Many of our Surrogates
have also become dear friends of ours. We conduct fun and informative monthly support
group meetings, and an annual "girls weekend" retreat. We even have past surrogates
who continue to attend our meetings, they think of it as their "surrority." You will find
that this type of positive support is essential to making your experience a meaningful and
enjoyable one. In addition to bringing a miracle child into the world, you will also gain
wonderful, life-long friends.
If you feel that you might be a good candidate to become a Surrogate, we feel that you
are probably right. In the world of Surrogacy, you have many options, but it is difficult to
know where to begin. If the first choice you make towards becoming a Surrogate is to
contact our agency, you can rest assured that you will have a friend along side you every
step of the way.
To begin the process right now...
Fill out the on-line request form on the Contact Us page. After you submit your request,
we will contact you to schedule a meeting. This meeting is simply a way for us to
introduce the agency, and for us to get to know each other. Once we agree to work
together, we will schedule a series of appointments in order to begin completing the
individual documents included in your Portfolio. Your Portfolio, once completed, will be
shown to prospective Intended Parents as an initial representation of who you are.
Your Portfolio will include:
A Photo or Photos of You and Your Family
A Sample Contract
Brief Biography
Initial Questionnaire
Home Interview
Fee Schedule
Medical Coverage Information (Deductibles, Co-pays, Out of Pocket Maximums)
Position on the Difficult Issues Sheet (Selective Reduction, Termination, etc.)
Any Identifying information, including your last name, will not be released until you are
negotiating a contract, and The Gift of Surrogacy has received your consent.
Surrogate Terminology…
There are two types of Surrogates, gestational and traditional. The defining factor is
whether or not the Surrogate has a genetic link to the child that she is carrying.
Gestational Surrogacy is the process by which a Surrogate becomes pregnant through In-
Vitro Fertilization. The eggs come from either the Intended Mother, or an egg donor.
Either the Intended Father or a sperm donor provides the sperm. The Surrogate receives
the fertilized egg through an Embryo Transfer. The Gestational Surrogate has no genetic
link to the baby. A Traditional Surrogacy occurs when the Surrogate becomes pregnant,
through Artificial Insemination, using her own eggs. Therefore, a Traditional Surrogate
has a biological and genetic link to the child. The Intended Father or a sperm donor
supplies the sperm.
To be eligible to be represented by The Gift of Surrogacy, you must:
Reside in Idaho or Southeastern Oregon
Be between the ages of 21 and 39 years old
Like being pregnant and desire to help another family
Be a non-smoker, who maintains a healthy lifestyle
Be willing to abstain from alcohol during pregnancy
Be willing to limit caffeine intake during pregnancy
Have a healthy body mass index (height/weight ratio)
Have a history of full-term, healthy pregnancy
Have health insurance
Have successfully carried at least one child, who is currently in your custody
Be financially stable, and in a safe home environment
Not be receiving State Assistance
If married, have a spouse who is supportive of your becoming a Surrogate
Taking the first step…
Step one of becoming a Surrogate is to do some serious soul-searching. Our screening
process is designed to introduce you to, and educate you in, the world of Surrogacy. By
the completion of the screening process, you will know whether or not becoming a
Surrogate is the right choice for you. Becoming a Surrogate is a decision that will change
your life, and ultimately, feed your soul. How many other jobs can promise that?
Your “Perfect” Intended Parents…
Matching Surrogates with their “perfect” Intended Parents is an extremely personal and
emotional process. Intended Parents are typically looking for a Surrogate who is healthy,
stable, and has views similar to their own. However, Intended Parents also want
someone to whom they feel a strong connection. You will most likely meet prospective
Intended Parents at an “Interview Day,” where they will meet individually with between
two and four Surrogate finalists. An interview is a wonderful opportunity for you; it is
your chance to shine. We will be present at the interview, and you will be allotted a
specific amount of time to get to know the Intended Parents. We will contact you and the
other candidates as soon as possible with the results of those interviews. You could be
selected as a result of the first interview you attend, or the fourth or fifth. Keep in mind
that if you were not chosen, those Intended Parents were not the right couple for you.
They chose the Surrogate who was “perfect” for them; you will be the “perfect” choice for
someone else.
When you are chosen, you will receive a copy of the Intended Parents’ questionnaire and
a brief Biography. You will then be given the choice to work with them. From this point,
the contract will be finalized in thirty days, or less. And now, your journey begins...
The Contract…
This story is the same for both sides: Surrogacy is a very personal journey, but it is also a
business. This will never be more prevalent than during the contract phase of your
Surrogacy. Many Surrogates consider the contract to be the most stressful part of their
Surrogacy experience. The contract outlines the rules of the surrogacy for both the
Surrogate and the Intended Parents. It will include a detailed payment schedule,
including a breakdown of all relevant fees, and when you will receive them. The contract
also defines what you will be able to expect from your Intended Parents, and what
expectations your Intended Parents will have of you. At The Gift of Surrogacy, the fees of
our Surrogates are non-negotiable. This eliminates potential hard feelings between you
and your Intended Parents. Your Surrogate Fee will depend on a variety of factors, but
will start at $20,000 for first-time Surrogates, or $30,000 for proven Surrogates. This
eliminates the need to negotiate; your fee will be set, and you will never have to answer
the question, “Are you willing to reduce your fee?” We know that you became a
Surrogate for all of the right reasons. Your Intended Parents can expect what they are
asking for…their child. We believe that you should receive what you ask for, as well. Still,
many difficult issues remain which will require negotiation, and we will act as the liaison
between you and the Intended Parents in order to resolve those issues (with as little
conflict as possible).
The body of Surrogacy case law is emerging and remains unsettled; therefore, it is in
everyone’s best interest to work with a lawyer who has extensive experience with
surrogacy contracts. We will provide just such an attorney to mediate your contract.
Before the contract is submitted, a detailed questionnaire will be filled out by both
parties. This document will then be used to draft the contract. The lawyer will outline
and review the contract, which will then be sent out to both parties. The lawyer will then
make any changes or additions requested by either party. Once the contract is approved,
copies will be sent to you and to your Intended Parents. The majority of correspondence
with the lawyer will be handled for you by the agency.
Payments…
The surrogacy arrangement ensures that being a Surrogate will be of no cost to you. The
Intended Parents are responsible for all expenses, including: medical procedures, doctor
fees, medications, attorney fees, etc. In addition, you will receive a monthly allowance to
pay for some of the smaller expenses that you will incur. Any additional amounts that are
listed “In the Gray Area,” will be paid within seven days of the given procedure.
The Intended Parents will also have a trust account opened for you, into which they will
place all of the funds you will be receiving, prior to the Embryo Transfer. This allows you
and the Intended Parents to concentrate solely on enjoying the pregnancy. It also
provides you security, knowing that you will receive your payments as stated. Generally,
Surrogates receive a payment the first of each month, if this schedule is inconvenient for
you, arrangements can be made. The trust account is established once the contract has
been signed, a sample disbursement schedule is listed in the application portfolio.
The Transfer…
When you meet the other Surrogates, their first question will be “when do you transfer?”
The transfer is such an exciting event because it signifies the beginning of the Surrogate
process. The medical procedure for the Embryo Transfer is similar to the combination of a
Pap test and vaginal ultrasound. In most cases, the procedure is pain free. For a "fresh"
cycle, (a sample protocol would be) that the clinic will adjust your menstrual cycle to fit the
transfer schedule through a series of birth control pills and daily injections of Lupron, a
drug that suppresses ovulation. If you are thinking, “but I hate needles,” do not worry,
once you get past the initial shock (and we will help you through it), it will seem just a
normal part of your daily routine. Everyone who has been through the process felt
intimidated at first, but after just two days, you will be amazed at how simple and
relatively painless the injections are. You will attend a “shot class” at the reproductive
clinic (not nearly as fun as it sounds), where a nurse will talk you through the first
injections, and we will always be available to assist you, as well. For "fresh" as well as
"frozen" cycles, you will also begin Delestrogen (Estradiol Valerate) injections two to
three weeks prior (and Progesterone injections approximately four to six days prior) to
the transfer date. These meds are designed to maintain the integrity of the uterine
lining, and assist in making the transfer successful.
You will be subject to weekly blood tests to monitor your meds, and an ultrasound every
few weeks to evaluate your uterine lining. The eggs will be retrieved from the Intended
Mother or egg donor and fertilized, and three days (cleaved embryo) or five days
(blastocyst) later, the Doctor will transfer the embryos into your uterus. You will be on
strict bed rest following the Transfer for approximately 72 hours. You will then continue
your Delestrogen and Progesterone injections, and likely begin Progesterone vaginal
suppositories at that time. Your continued plan of care will depend on your individual
response to the meds, and we will be available to assist and support you in anyway
possible.
On the eighth and tenth days after the embryo transfer, you will have blood draws at the
clinic to confirm your hCG levels. On the afternoon of the tenth day, the clinic will call you
with the results of those tests. We hope that you will hear the words:
Congratulations! You’re Pregnant…
You and your Intended Parents will determine the amount of contact you will have during
the pregnancy. If both parties are open to a lot of contact, you can arrange for frequent
visits and/or phone calls. If you both prefer a more reserved approach, your Intended
Parents may just attend a few doctor appointments, and correspond by e-mail. At The
Gift of Surrogacy, we encourage healthy and respectful relationships between the
Surrogate and Intended Parents. We are also committed to making the surrogacy
experience as stress-free as possible, and the best way to ensure that--is good
communication. If there are ever questions, problems, or changes to be made, we will be
there to help to resolve those issues.
Counseling Sessions
One of the most important services that we are able to provide to our Surrogates is our
series of counseling sessions. Your good mental health is essential to a positive
surrogacy experience. Surrogacy is a deeply personal and emotional investment. To
borrow the Army's old ad-campaign slogan, "It is the hardest job you'll ever love." To
that end, we have created a counseling package which consists of a series of four
appointments with a Licensed Psychologist with knowledge specific to Surrogates,
Intended Parents, Egg Donors, and others involved in Third-Party Reproductive Medicine.
The first appointment is designed to go along with the pre-screening, to assess where
you are at both mentally and emotionally, and to prepare you for the process. The
second appointment is set to deal with either the confirmed pregnancy--or a failed
transfer. It is nearly impossible to gauge, before-hand, how you will feel after a failed
transfer. We want for you to understand that, unfortunately, this is a common part of the
surrogacy experience--and that the next step is to make sure that everyone is looking
forward--to the next transfer. The third appointment is meant to prepare you for the
birth--your role, what to expect, and how to honor both yourself and the Intended
Parents on this wonderful day. The final appointment is intended as an exit-interview
(taking place a few weeks after the birth) to bring the experience full-circle and to
address any postpartum issues should they occur.
Nutrition Counseling Classes
We are so excited to offer you a series of three nutrition counseling sessions (one each
trimester). The series will consist of a five to seven course meal prepared in front of you
and the other Surrogates by a Licensed Nutrition Counselor. The focus will be on
addressing the specific nutritional needs associated with each phase of pregnancy, and
providing easy-to-prepare meal ideas for you and your busy family.
The Gift of Surrogacy ....
You would probably like to know how much contact you will have with the agency. The
answer is, as much or as little as you would like. Some of our Surrogates contact us on a
daily basis, others monthly. A lot of that depends on where you are in the process. We
contact each of our Surrogates on (at minimum) a weekly basis, and more often in the
beginning, when the process is most intensive. If this is too much for you, we will work
together to create a schedule that everyone can agree on. Some Intended Parents
contact their surrogates on a daily or weekly basis--others, less frequently. The
relationship will evolve into one that works for both of you.
From the time you are accepted into the program, until the birth of the baby; you will
become very familiar the entire support staff of our agency. We will introduce you to the
world of Surrogacy, and answer any questions you might have along the way. We will be
with you every step of the way, offering insight, encouragement, guidance, support, and
advice.
An offer you can’t refuse…
Once you become involved with our agency, you will find yourself emotionally invested in
the world of surrogacy. You will constantly think of friends or family members who you
know would make excellent Surrogates. Educated and confident in your decision, you will
be a walking advertisement for The Gift of Surrogacy, and cannot help but introduce
others to this part of your life. Should one of those potential candidates become
interested themselves, we would love to meet her and/or have her attend a support
group meeting. If your referral is matched, you will receive a $250 "finder's fee" at the
heart-beat ultrasound. It’s just our little way of saying, “Thanks!”
In Closing…
We've thought and thought about to conclude this section; we wanted to be absolutely
sure that we would say the right thing. When we were Surrogates, we were certain that
there had to be a better agency out there. That day it existed only in our minds, today it
exists as The Gift of Surrogacy. This agency is the culmination of our wishes and desires
for those just beginning the process of becoming a Surrogate. We have done our best to
maintain the nearly impossible balance of the smart business sense that you would
expect from a goal-oriented agency, and the heart-felt generosity of spirit that such a
personal journey requires. Being a Surrogate is not just something that you do, but
rather a reflection of the person who you are. It takes a special woman to be willing to
carry a child for someone else. It is a life-affirming decision, and something we have felt
called to do and blessed by.
The Gift of Surrogacy is deeply committed to our Surrogates. Many of our Surrogates
have also become dear friends of ours. We conduct fun and informative monthly support
group meetings, and an annual "girls weekend" retreat. We even have past surrogates
who continue to attend our meetings, they think of it as their "surrority." You will find
that this type of positive support is essential to making your experience a meaningful and
enjoyable one. In addition to bringing a miracle child into the world, you will also gain
wonderful, life-long friends.
If you feel that you might be a good candidate to become a Surrogate, we feel that you
are probably right. In the world of Surrogacy, you have many options, but it is difficult to
know where to begin. If the first choice you make towards becoming a Surrogate is to
contact our agency, you can rest assured that you will have a friend along side you every
step of the way.
To begin the process right now...
Fill out the on-line request form on the Contact Us page. After you submit your request,
we will contact you to schedule a meeting. This meeting is simply a way for us to
introduce the agency, and for us to get to know each other. Once we agree to work
together, we will schedule a series of appointments in order to begin completing the
individual documents included in your Portfolio. Your Portfolio, once completed, will be
shown to prospective Intended Parents as an initial representation of who you are.
Your Portfolio will include:
A Photo or Photos of You and Your Family
A Sample Contract
Brief Biography
Initial Questionnaire
Home Interview
Fee Schedule
Medical Coverage Information (Deductibles, Co-pays, Out of Pocket Maximums)
Position on the Difficult Issues Sheet (Selective Reduction, Termination, etc.)
Any Identifying information, including your last name, will not be released until you are
negotiating a contract, and The Gift of Surrogacy has received your consent.
Surrogates
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